The past decades have witnessed a great leap in the development of the society. And we are now attaching great importance to the sense of happiness. As a vital factor in our life,happiness brings us power, arouses our enthusiasm for loving life, and helps us to create a promising future. Some people are in the view that our job has greater happiness than out social life. But I disagree with that.Admittedly, our job brings happiness, as it can meet both our material and spiritual needs.As we can gain money by working hard, we can use the money to buy grand houses,invest on children's education, or realize one's own dreams, to name a few. If all the goals are accomplished, people will feel delighted. Besides, we will realize our self value and social value in our work, thus meeting our spiritual needs. For example, when it comes to men like Bill Gates, charity work reaches new levels of generosity and commitment. Well-known for founding the Bill Melinda Gates Foundation while also contributing to many other causes, Gates is not only one of the wealthiest men in the world-he is also one of the most giving. Besides, he gave away all of his fortune to charity when he retired. he gains happiness from his work。
However, a healthy relationship with our friends is the source of happiness and harbor of our heart. Communication with friends could help us get away from the pressure in our work. When we are in blue, we can talk with our friends, thus extricating ourselves from morbid emotions and even solving problems. Besides, some group work like singing,dancing and playing basketball together help us totally relaxed. For example, when playing basketball, we can meet new friends, learn to cooperate with others and enjoy the feeling of victory.Last but not the least, by engaging in social life, we can befriend people from all walks of life. Thus, we can enlarge our social networking and have a happier life. For instance,author Michael Lewis said at a speech:” One night I was invited to a dinner, where I sat next to the wife of a big shot at a giant Wall Street investment bank, called Salomon Brothers. She more or less forced her husband to give me a job. "Then he was so happy that he got a fantastic job and wrote the book Liar's Poke which was a hit to the country. If he did not take part in the dinner, he would never have become so successful and delightful.
In light of what we have discussed above, although our job brings pleasure, a healthy relationship with our friends and a large social networking makes us much happier.
However, a healthy relationship with our friends is the source of happiness and harbor of our heart. Communication with friends could help us get away from the pressure in our work. When we are in blue, we can talk with our friends, thus extricating ourselves from morbid emotions and even solving problems. Besides, some group work like singing,dancing and playing basketball together help us totally relaxed. For example, when playing basketball, we can meet new friends, learn to cooperate with others and enjoy the feeling of victory.Last but not the least, by engaging in social life, we can befriend people from all walks of life. Thus, we can enlarge our social networking and have a happier life. For instance,author Michael Lewis said at a speech:” One night I was invited to a dinner, where I sat next to the wife of a big shot at a giant Wall Street investment bank, called Salomon Brothers. She more or less forced her husband to give me a job. "Then he was so happy that he got a fantastic job and wrote the book Liar's Poke which was a hit to the country. If he did not take part in the dinner, he would never have become so successful and delightful.
In light of what we have discussed above, although our job brings pleasure, a healthy relationship with our friends and a large social networking makes us much happier.